Child Behavior Modification: The Challenge Chart
When raising our children, there inevitably comes a time that we encounter certain child behaviors in need of shall we say... modification.
If you've ever tried to modify your own behavior, it surely became apparent that behavior modification is an ongoing process requiring both consistency and motivation, which makes behavior modification a "not so easy" task to accomplish.
The same challenges that arise for you also arise for your child, so we need to find creative solutions to achieve the desired results...I was recently in need of a "creative solution" regarding two very common, yet chronic parenting dilemmas... room cleaning and homework. Sound familiar?
Since my dilemma involved two children with two different behavior issues, I needed to find a way to individually motivate them into making their own necessary behavior changes.
First, I tried the logical conversational approach... Things like: "You'd have a lot more playtime if you didn't mess around for so long doing your homework" and "You'd have a much nicer room if you could see the floor." Well, they both agreed with me, but nothing changed. (No big surprise there.)
I then pondered using the "or else" consequences technique, but because these were everyday behaviors that needed modification, it seemed too negative of an approach to use that often. What was needed was a positive ongoing incentive that would be consistent and motivate. Thus, the creation of the "Challenge Chart."
| Advertisement | Ah, so simple and yet so effective... the "Challenge Chart." The "Challenge Chart" has ten fill in the blank boxes where the child's individual challenges go. These challenges can be anything... room cleaning versus the timer... homework versus mom doing dishes... any behavior that needs attention and any challenge that makes for a fun game. If the child wins the challenge, they get a star sticker (or color in the star) in the box. Now, for the real motivation... at the bottom of the page you and your child choose a prize and write it on the bottom of the chart. The chart is then put in a viewable location as a constant reminder of the goal. When all ten challenge boxes have stars, the child can claim the prize! |
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The "Challenge Chart" covers both the consistency and motivation factors needed to make behavior modifications .There is also an additional "Demerits" section that can be used to help address smaller behavior issues at the same time... In our rules of "Challenge Chart" engagement two demerits equals the removal of one star. Now, the occasional "or else" consequences can come into play... "If you're not a good listener, you're going to get a demerit on your chart."
It's worked wonders in this house! Why not give it a try in yours? Click below to print your child's "Challenge Chart."
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